Here’s something I've always wondered: Are people supposed to automatically know how to kiss? Miss Phelps. Everyone does it but no one teaches it. My dad taught me to ride a bike, my mom taught me to cook. But no one's ever said, "Here's how to kiss". I have no idea if I'm a good kisser or even if I'm doing it right. I don't know if kissing's all about the lips or if it includes other body parts. And how long should a kiss last? What do you do with your hands? Where do - Luann. I'm a school counselor, not a psychotherapist. Yeah. So many certificates, so little real use.